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What to look for in an Instructor Part 2

Another important thing to look for in an instructor is sign of total belief in what he is teaching.

Questions to ask:

Has he been tested?  Has he used it for real?

If he hasn’t had to defend himself, then in what other ways has he tested his art?

To what degree has he trained?

So on and so forth.

I know from experience some instructors don’t take too kindly to being scrutinized, they like to be king of the hill, and as they certainly have  acquired some skill over time and ably display it now and again, they give the impression that they know what they’re doing, even as they remain tight-lipped over their story.

However, to my mind, the “right sort” will be far less reticent than this and you should, at least, without having to probe too far, be able to discern if they are the “real deal” or not before very long.

Look for related incidents, scrapes, training exploits and episodes where techniques were really tried and tested against considerable force; your instructors attitude should shine through in all of this, he should be able demonstrate the worth of his knowledge through narrative without hesitation.

You should see evidence of certitude, which is freedom from doubt, not just through the demonstration of certain “moves” but through his “perspective”, through his words: i.e.  this works because…we do it like this, because…when I did this once, this happened…so on and so forth.

We’re looking for evidence of empirical knowledge, over and above the mere repetition of what has been taught for an eon (this is not to undermine the purity of tradition, mind you).

Do you honestly believe he can handle himself?  Stare unmitigated hate and aggression straight in the face and remain undaunted, downing it even before coming to blows?

Because one day your instructor may be confronted, and what are you going to think if he crumples in fear?  What use your champion’s skill if he’s unwilling to use it, in times of grim need?

There’s no getting away from it, a sane person would prefer not to fight, but to my mind someone with skill and absolute belief in what they are teaching – most certainly a person who professes to be a “Master” – should be able to face hate and aggression straight on with a look in their eye that more or less says:  “Are you forcing my hand?  Because I will f^%&ing destroy you!”

Talk of personalities all you like, the idea of this not being in your nature, you’re not wanting to fight….when it comes to the crunch, what are you really going to do?

Instructor’s, sufi’s, sensi’s, are no different, and to my mind you want to be under one who has completed his training and turned base metal to gold.

Someone who knows without a doubt what works and what doesn’t and doesn’t hold back in telling you where you need to improve, what you need to know, and of the dangers there are.

Yes training is fun.  We meet with our friends and build up a sweat and make better our skill and harness our motives…but in the end, we’re either going to get a rude awakening some night on the town and wake to the fact we’ve been poorly instructed and that our efforts were futile –  or know that we’ve, as they say round my parts, tain the right path“.

Be honest with yourself, ask now and again, even if you think you’ve found the right place: Is this working for me?

If your answer is consistently yes, then you’ve probably found someone of character you would want to stay under.